{"id":2023,"date":"2023-11-24T20:21:39","date_gmt":"2023-11-24T20:21:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifecoach180.org\/?p=2023"},"modified":"2023-11-24T20:33:41","modified_gmt":"2023-11-24T20:33:41","slug":"fear-of-commitment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifecoach180.org\/?p=2023","title":{"rendered":"Fear of Commitment"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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  • Fear of Commitment:<\/u><\/em><\/strong> People tend to shy away from accountability. The perspective of many who fear commitment is it\u2019s easier not to be accountable than to let others down or to be let down.\u00a0 Commitment seems to feel like a hot potato, \u201chow many obligations can I pass on to others without taking responsibility?\u201d\u00a0 What are some other reasons people may fear commitment?<\/li><\/ul>

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    Commit your way to the\u00a0Lord; trust in him\u00a0and he will do this (bring it to pass) (Psalms 35:5).<\/p>

    Why is it important to be committed to the Lord?<\/p>

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    What results when you follow through in either a task or relationship and remain committed?<\/p>

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    There are two action steps we are responsible for, (1) commit and (2) trust.\u00a0 Commitment allows you to have a breakthrough because it develops resilience.\u00a0 In other words, it\u2019s the ability to keep going when you have nothing left. Marathon runners call this running through the wall, which is the point where the body and mind say stop, but the will says yes you can.\u00a0 This is the point where you hear the voice in your head say, \u201cGive up on your marriage, your children, or life in general but God\u2019s voice swoops in as a gentle whisper, \u201cTrust me, and take courage, I will take you to the other side.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>

    Moses when he lifted the rod before crossing the Red Sea committed to saving thousands to help them crossover to the other side.\u00a0 With odds stacked against him the enemy at his back and the sea in front of him, Moses decided to jump in and observe the sea open on both sides providing passage for the people of God.<\/p>

    Today I challenge you to commit to your dreams, relationships, and the hope you seek by lifting your hands and jumping in.\u00a0 Face the fear and watch the walls rise on both sides giving you access to safe passage through.\u00a0<\/p>

    What areas would you like to be committed to? (Family, finances, spiritual, etc.)<\/p><\/td>

    What must you be committed to finishing (habit developing)<\/p><\/td><\/tr>

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    \u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Be intentional with my time with my wife<\/p>

    \u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Take walks with my wife<\/p>

    \u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Truly listen and respond back<\/p><\/td><\/tr>

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    There is nothing worse than wasting your time, talents, and energy because you are not aware of signs that recognize a lack of commitment.\u00a0 Lack of commitment can come in many different forms, from building a relationship to trusting and relying on God and even as simple as completing obligations and responsibilities.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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