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Fear of Commitment in Relationships<\/strong><\/p>

  • Moving past the casual stage<\/strong>, even though you like the person you\u2019re seeing, you may have some unresolved commitment fears. You can be carrying baggage issues of someone who left you in the past and you are still dealing with the hurt.\u00a0 My encouragement is to first rely on God and seek peace in your heart.\u00a0 If the relationship is built on Christ and both have a purpose continue to move forward.<\/li>
  • Planning a future together:<\/strong> If you don\u2019t give the future any thought at all and see your future journey together working and creating a life you may have avoidance issues.\u00a0 The time you spend with someone must be purposeful and meaningful to grow and mature.\u00a0 You should be able to look back and see flowers blooming where you both worked together to plant seeds and water.<\/li><\/ul>
    • You keep questioning the relationship. <\/strong>Having insecurity will eventually destroy a relationship.\u00a0 Healthy relationships are the ones that can be happy independently and function independently while trusting their loved ones are building for the future that benefits both.\u00a0 Marriage isn\u2019t two halves making a whole, but two separate and complete individuals that are whole in God, working as one functioning body for God\u2019s purpose.\u00a0 If questions arise over and over like a scratched record continuing to skip, consider the root cause could be commitment issues.\u00a0 Questions such as, \u201cDo you love me?\u201d\u00a0 \u201cWhat happens next?\u201d\u00a0 \u201cAre you ready for this?\u00a0 \u201cDo you want this to work?\u201d<\/li><\/ul>
      • Lack of Making Plans:<\/strong> Many relationships start with anticipation and sizzle out ending up as tumbleweeds blowing by as each person waits for the next person to decide what to do together.\u00a0 It\u2019s important to be spontaneous as well as intentional and plan.\u00a0 To keep a relationship healthy, you must water it with activities, hobbies, and goals.\u00a0 This why it\u2019s important that choosing a partner is beyond just looks but a mindful purpose.\u00a0 A couple of questions you can ask yourself: Do you enjoy the same things they enjoy?\u00a0 Do our hobbies and recreation complement each other?\u00a0 Do we have the same purpose and mission working together for God?\u00a0 This is the primary reason you should not be unequally yoked.<\/li><\/ul>

        Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness (2 Corinthians 6:14-18)?<\/p>

        According to the verse, why is it important to start a relationship on equal terms with the same mindset of Christ?<\/p>

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        How can past hurts limit growth in a current relationship? ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________<\/p>

        Why is it important to be committed in a relationship? ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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