{"id":2843,"date":"2026-01-17T19:49:43","date_gmt":"2026-01-17T19:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifecoach180.org\/?p=2843"},"modified":"2026-01-17T20:06:47","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T20:06:47","slug":"the-value-of-appreciation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifecoach180.org\/?p=2843","title":{"rendered":"The Value of Appreciation"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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This week\u2019s inspirational study comes from the book by Edwin Louis Cole the\u00a0Maximized Manhood<\/a>.\u00a0 We will be covering a section of the book on the value of appreciation.<\/p>

  1. Honor protects value\u2014even when others don\u2019t deserve it.<\/li>
  2. Small acts of appreciation create eternal impact.<\/li>
  3. Words are currency\u2014spend them wisely.<\/li><\/ol>

    Everything in life is moving in one of two directions\u2014it is either appreciating or depreciating based on the level of care it receives. Homes don\u2019t increase in value by neglect. Cars don\u2019t last without maintenance. Investments don\u2019t grow without attention. Value responds to care.<\/p>

    Scripture reminds us of this principle:<\/p>

    \u201cWhoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.\u201d<\/em> (Luke 16:10)<\/p>

    What is true in the natural is also true in the relational. Our relationships appreciate or depreciate depending on the time, care, and intentionality we invest. Love, like any valuable asset, requires stewardship.<\/p>

    When we speak harshly, withhold gratitude, or treat time with loved ones as disposable, we slowly devalue what was once priceless. Words spoken in frustration, judgment held in private, or attitudes left unchecked quietly erode connection.<\/p>

    \u201cThe tongue has the power of life and death.\u201d<\/em> (Proverbs 18:21)<\/p>

    Neglect doesn\u2019t announce itself loudly\u2014it happens subtly. A missed thank-you. An unspoken affirmation. A moment where appreciation was needed but irritation took its place. And over time, the relationship depreciates.<\/p>

    God calls us to a higher economy\u2014the economy of honor.<\/p>

    \u201cEncourage one another and build each other up.\u201d<\/em> (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
    \u201cBe devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.\u201d<\/em> (Romans 12:10)<\/p>

    It\u2019s important to take inventory of what we say about others\u2014both in their presence and in private. Every judgment, sharp demand, or dismissive attitude cost something. But every word of gratitude, affirmation, and grace increases value.<\/p>

    So I challenge you today:
    If you find yourself irritated, distant, or in conflict within a relationship, pause and ask\u2014are words of appreciation missing?<\/em> Have I thanked them for the small things? Have I noticed what they carry, contribute, and endure?<\/p>

    Gratitude has a way of restoring value.<\/p>

    \u201cLet your conversation be always full of grace.\u201d<\/em> (Colossians 4:6)<\/p>

    When appreciation rises, so does the worth\u2014of time, of trust, and of relationships. Just like wise investments, what we nurture grows. What we honor appreciates.<\/p>

    CORE TRUTH<\/strong><\/p>

    Whatever we honor appreciates. Whatever we neglect depreciates.<\/strong>\u00a0 This principle applies to faith, finances, and especially relationships.\u00a0 \u201cGive, and it will be given to you\u2026 For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.\u201d<\/em> (Luke 6:38)<\/p>

    Teaching Point 1:<\/strong> Honor protects value\u2014even when others don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>

    David & Saul \u2014 Honor Withdrawn, Relationship Deteriorated<\/strong><\/p>

    Scripture:<\/strong> 1 Samuel 18\u201326<\/p>

    Bible Story<\/strong><\/p>

    Saul began as a king favored by God, but insecurity and jealousy led him to depreciate David through suspicion, harsh words, and pursuit. David, however, continued to honor Saul\u2014even refusing to harm him when given the opportunity.\u00a0 \u201cThe Lord forbid that I should do such a thing to my master, the Lord\u2019s anointed.\u201d<\/em> (1 Samuel 24:6) Saul\u2019s lack of affirmation and constant judgment caused the relationship\u2014and his leadership\u2014to collapse. David\u2019s honor preserved his character and elevated his future.<\/p>

    Appreciation is not a sign of weakness but of strength. When you appreciate others you send a message of strength and confidence to them.\u00a0 It provides an opportunity for you to step back and enjoy the flowers.\u00a0 Regardless if they take them or not your garden will continue to grow as you create a bouquet of love.<\/p>

    Real-Life Story<\/strong><\/p>

    A school administrator once had a gifted teacher whose ideas brought innovation and life to the campus. Instead of affirming her contributions, the administrator dismissed her suggestions and publicly corrected her. Within a year, the teacher transferred schools. The campus lost excellence\u2014not because of incompetence, but because appreciation was absent.<\/p>

    The lack of appreciation has dire circumstances which can cost us in the long run.\u00a0 Each appreciation missed becomes a small snowball that rolls down a mountain eventually causing an avalanche.<\/p>

    \u00a0<\/strong>Teaching Tool #1: The Honor Inventory<\/strong><\/p>

    Ask daily:<\/strong><\/p>