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\u201cThis One Choice Is Quietly Shaping Your Life<\/strong><\/p>

\u201cHave you ever had a great day\u2026 and one comment ruined the whole thing?\u201d<\/p>

Most of us think our lives are shaped by big decisions \u2014 but research and Scripture show something quieter is at work.\u201d<\/em> The choice of what we focus on.<\/strong>\u00a0 Our brains are wired to react more strongly to negative experiences than positive ones. We learn faster from pain than pleasure. We remember losses more than wins. That\u2019s why one negative moment can hijack an entire day filled with good.<\/p>

But here\u2019s the hope: what the brain naturally does, God can spiritually retrain.<\/strong>\u00a0 Today we\u2019re going to look at how this works in our minds, in our relationships, and in Scripture \u2014 through the relationship between David and Saul<\/strong> \u2014 and how one intentional choice<\/em> can quietly reshape your life.\u00a0<\/p>

Are you ready? Let\u2019 go!<\/p>

\u201cThis One Choice Is Quietly Shaping Your Life\u201d<\/strong><\/p>

The choice of what we focus on \u2014 positive or negative \u2014 shapes our emotional, spiritual, and relational health.<\/strong><\/p>

\u201cAnd whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord\u2026 And whatsoever you think about, meditate on these things.\u201d
\u2014 Philippians 4:8 (paraphrased emphasis)<\/strong><\/p>

Our brains are wired to notice negative experiences more intensely than positive ones. Without awareness \u2014 and without God\u2019s help \u2014 that wiring can quietly shape our lives in ways we don\u2019t<\/em> want.<\/p>

Point 1 \u2014 Our Brains Notice Negative Faster Than Positive<\/strong><\/h4>

We learn faster from pain than pleasure because the brain is like Velcro for negative<\/em> and Teflon for positive<\/em>.\u00a0 The research insight states by neuroscience that negative events produce stronger and more lasting responses than positive ones \u2014 a phenomenon called negativity bias<\/em>. One study concluded that \u201cbad is stronger than good\u201d<\/em> in impact on experience and memory.<\/p>

Imagine a woman arriving to work getting dozens of positive comments on a presentation \u2014 but one critical remark sticks with her all day. That one critique becomes louder in her mind than the affirmations. Her brain is doing what it\u2019s built to do \u2014 but without intention, that wiring steers her emotional experience<\/em>.<\/p>

Biblical Story \u2014 David and Saul<\/strong><\/h4>

When David first served Saul, his victories brought joy to Saul and relief to Israel. But when the women sang,<\/p>

\u201cSaul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands,\u201d<\/em>
Saul\u2019s heart twisted with jealousy.<\/em> (1 Samuel 18:7\u20138). Saul chose to dwell on the threat<\/em> instead of the good<\/em> David had done. Even after David served Saul faithfully, Saul\u2019s focus was on fear and loss \u2014 not on David\u2019s loyalty or God\u2019s blessing. His mind latched onto danger like Velcro, letting negative thoughts dictate his choices.<\/p>

Our Brains Are Wired for Threat \u2014 But Our Souls Are Wired for Truth<\/strong><\/h4>

Our brains are wired to detect threat. But God calls us to choose what we feed our minds.<\/em> When you catch your mind drifting toward fear or criticism, pause and redirect to God\u2019s truth.<\/p>

God designed the human brain with a survival instinct. From an evolutionary and neurological standpoint, your brain is constantly scanning for danger \u2014 criticism, rejection, loss, threat. That\u2019s not a flaw; it\u2019s a feature. It\u2019s why you notice the sharp comment faster than the kind one. Its why fear gets your attention before peace does.<\/p>

But here\u2019s the tension:
What protects the body can imprison the soul if left unchecked.<\/strong><\/p>

Scripture acknowledges this inner battle long before neuroscience named it.<\/p>

\u201cThe mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.\u201d<\/em>
\u2014 Romans 8:6<\/p>

Threat Detection vs. Thought Direction<\/strong><\/h4>

Your brain\u2019s first reaction is automatic.\u00a0 Your second response<\/em> is a choice.\u00a0 Fear, criticism, and negative thoughts often arrive uninvited. They feel loud, urgent, and convincing. That doesn\u2019t mean they are true \u2014 it means they triggered your threat system.<\/p>

David understood this well. When Saul hunted him, David had every reason to live in fear. Saul\u2019s threat was real. Yet David consistently chose not to feed<\/em> fear.<\/p>

\u201cWhen I am afraid, I put my trust in You.\u201d<\/em>
\u2014 Psalm 56:3<\/p>

Notice David doesn\u2019t say if<\/em> I am afraid \u2014 but when<\/em>. Fear shows up. The choice is what happens next.<\/p>

What You Feed Grows Stronger<\/strong><\/h4>

The brain strengthens whatever pathways we repeatedly activate. If you rehearse criticism, fear, or worst-case scenarios, those pathways grow louder and faster. But if you pause and redirect, you weaken fear\u2019s grip and strengthen faith\u2019s voice.\u00a0 Paul speaks directly to this discipline:<\/p>

\u201cTake every thought captive to obey Christ.\u201d<\/em>
\u2014 2 Corinthians 10:5<\/p>

A captive thought is not ignored \u2014 it\u2019s examined.
Ask:<\/p>

  • Is this thought producing peace or panic?<\/li>
  • Is it rooted in truth or fear?<\/li>
  • Does it align with God\u2019s Word or my worry?<\/li><\/ul>

    Redirecting Is a Spiritual Act, Not Denial<\/strong><\/h4>

    Redirecting your thoughts doesn\u2019t mean pretending the problem doesn\u2019t exist. David didn\u2019t deny Saul was dangerous \u2014 he simply refused to let fear rule him. \u00a0In the cave, David could have reacted with anger or self-protection. Instead, he paused. He redirected. He remembered who God was and who he<\/em> was. David chose identity over impulse.<\/p>

    \u201cThe Lord forbid that I should do such a thing to my master.\u201d<\/em>
    \u2014 1 Samuel 24:6<\/p>

    Feeding the Mind with God\u2019s Truth<\/strong><\/h4>

    Therefore Paul gives such a practical filter in Philippians 4:8:<\/p>

    \u201cWhatever is true\u2026 noble\u2026 right\u2026 pure\u2026 lovely\u2026 admirable\u2026 excellent or praiseworthy \u2014 think about such things.\u201d<\/em><\/p>

    This isn\u2019t wishful thinking \u2014 it\u2019s mental training<\/strong>.\u00a0 Every time you pause and redirect:<\/p>

    • You are teaching your brain a new pathway<\/li>
    • You are reminding your soul who is in control<\/li>
    • You are aligning your reaction with God\u2019s truth<\/li><\/ul>

      Over time, what once felt forced becomes familiar.<\/p>

      A Simple Practice You Can Teach<\/strong><\/h4>

      When fear or criticism arises, pause, and say:<\/p>

      1. Name it:<\/strong> \u201cThis is fear \/ criticism \/ insecurity.\u201d<\/li>
      2. Replace it:<\/strong> \u201cGod says ___.\u201d (Scripture, truth, promise)<\/li>
      3. Redirect:<\/strong> \u201cI choose to focus on what is good right now.\u201d<\/li><\/ol>

        That pause is powerful. It\u2019s where transformation begins.\u00a0 Your brain may be wired to detect danger \u2014 but your spirit was designed to discern truth.\u00a0 You don\u2019t control the first thought.
        You do control the one you entertain.<\/strong>\u00a0 And when God becomes the filter for your thoughts, peace becomes the fruit of your life.<\/p>

        Point 2 \u2014 One Negative Can Eclipse Many Positives<\/strong><\/h4>

        One negative experience can overwhelm a day of positives if we aren\u2019t intentional about our focus.\u00a0 Research in positive psychology shows that in healthy relationships and emotional well-being, positive interactions need to outnumber negative ones \u2014 ideally at a 5:1<\/em> ratio.<\/p>

        Take a workday filled with good moments \u2014 a successful meeting, a kind text from a friend, a peaceful walk. Then one harsh critique from a coworker ruins your mood. Why? Because the negative<\/em> registers more strongly and louder than the positives<\/em>. Our focus determines our experience.<\/p>

        David Spares Saul\u2019s Life<\/strong><\/h4>

        When David had the chance to kill Saul in the cave, he chose mercy<\/em>. (1 Samuel 24). Most people would highlight the danger David faced, but he chose to focus on God\u2019s purposes<\/em> instead of his threats<\/em>. He didn\u2019t let one negative \u2014 the threat of death \u2014 eclipse his larger story. That\u2019s an extraordinary example of choosing perspective.<\/p>

        Don\u2019t Ignore the Negative \u2014 Anchor It in God\u2019s Goodness<\/strong><\/h4>

        The Christian life is not about pretending everything is fine. Scripture never asks us to deny pain, fear, or disappointment. In fact, the Bible names suffering honestly. What God invites us to do is something far more powerful:\u00a0 Hold the negative without letting it dominate the narrative.<\/strong><\/p>

        \u201cWe are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair.\u201d<\/em>
        \u2014 2 Corinthians 4:8<\/p>

        Notice the balance. Pressure is acknowledged. Despair is refused.<\/p>

        Why Ignoring the Negative Doesn\u2019t Work<\/strong><\/h4>

        When we try to suppress or ignore negative emotions, they often grow stronger. Neuroscience confirms this: avoided thoughts don\u2019t disappear\u2014they resurface with more intensity. That\u2019s why forced positivity feels exhausting and inauthentic.\u00a0 God never tells us to deny reality.\u00a0 He teaches us to interpret reality through truth<\/strong>.<\/p>

        David didn\u2019t ignore Saul\u2019s threat. He ran. He hid. He lamented. But he didn\u2019t let fear become the lens<\/em> through which he saw God.<\/p>

        \u201cWhy, my soul, are you downcast? \u2026 Put your hope in God.\u201d<\/em>
        \u2014 Psalm 42:11<\/p>

        David speaks to<\/em> his soul, not from<\/em> his fear.<\/p>

        The Lesson of the Monkey Mind (and Why Paul Goes Further)<\/strong><\/p>

        There\u2019s a story of a young man who went to a monk, frustrated by his thoughts.<\/p>

        \u201cEvery time I try to be still,\u201d he said, \u201cmy mind fills with distractions. I can\u2019t stop thinking.\u201d<\/p>

        The monk listened and replied,
        \u201cThen start thinking about monkeys.\u201d<\/p>

        The young man nodded, relieved. Finally\u2014simple advice.<\/p>

        He left and tried. But within seconds, his mind was flooded with monkeys.
        Monkeys climbing trees.
        Monkeys screeching.
        Monkeys everywhere.<\/p>

        He returned angry and defeated.<\/p>

        \u201cI did exactly what you said,\u201d he complained. \u201cNow all I can think about is monkeys.\u201d<\/p>

        The monk smiled and said,
        \u201cThat is the nature of the mind. You cannot command it to be empty. You must give it something else to hold<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>

        Why This Story Matters So Much<\/strong><\/p>

        This story reveals a truth we often miss:<\/p>

        • You cannot defeat a thought by resisting it.<\/strong><\/li>
        • You replace a thought by redirecting it.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>

          Trying not<\/em> to think about fear, anxiety, criticism, or failure usually makes those thoughts louder \u2014 not quieter.\u00a0 That\u2019s why Paul doesn\u2019t say in Philippians 4:8:
          \u201cDon\u2019t think about bad things.\u201d<\/p>

          Instead, he says:<\/p>

          \u201cWhatever is true\u2026 noble\u2026 right\u2026 pure\u2026 lovely\u2026 admirable\u2026 excellent or praiseworthy\u2014think about such things.\u201d<\/em><\/p>

          Paul understands what neuroscience and ancient wisdom both confirm:
          the mind is never empty \u2014 it is always focused on something.\u00a0 <\/strong>Instead of focusing on something that is negative, shift your mind to something that is positive often brought to the surface by something you are grateful for.<\/p>

          Where the Gospel Goes Deeper<\/strong><\/p>

          The monk was right about one thing:\u00a0 You must redirect<\/em> the mind.\u00a0 But Christianity goes further.\u00a0 We are not told to fill our minds with anything neutral<\/em>, we are invited to fill our minds with truth<\/strong>.<\/p>

          Not distraction.
          Not suppression.
          But transformation<\/strong>.<\/p>

          \u201cYou will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.\u201d<\/em>
          \u2014 Isaiah 26:3<\/p>

          The peace doesn\u2019t come from mental control, it comes from relational focus<\/strong>.<\/p>

          Paul\u2019s Solution to the Monkey Mind<\/strong><\/p>

          Paul doesn\u2019t say:<\/p>

          • Try harder<\/li>
          • Clear your thoughts<\/li>
          • Silence your mind<\/li><\/ul>

            He says:<\/p>

            • Filter your thoughts<\/strong><\/li>
            • Choose what stays<\/strong><\/li>
            • Practice holy attention<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>

              Therefore Philippians 4:8 is a discipline<\/strong>.\u00a0 Every time fear shows up, you don\u2019t wrestle it \u2014
              you replace it<\/em>.\u00a0 Every time criticism loops, you don\u2019t argue with it, you anchor yourself in truth<\/em>.<\/p>

              David Practiced This Long Before Paul Named It<\/strong><\/p>

              When David was running from Saul, his mind had every reason to spiral. Yet over and over, he redirected his thoughts:<\/p>

              \u201cI have set the Lord always before me.\u201d<\/em>
              \u2014 Psalm 16:8<\/p>

              David didn\u2019t stop thinking about danger, he kept thinking about God<\/strong>.\u00a0 That\u2019s why fear didn\u2019t get the final word.<\/p>

              A Line You Can Teach (Very Memorable)<\/strong><\/p>

              You can say this plainly:<\/p>

              \u201cYou can\u2019t tell your mind what not<\/em> to think about \u2014
              but you can tell it what to return to<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>

              Or:<\/p>

              \u201cThe mind will always cling to something.
              Philippians 4:8 tells us what deserves that grip.\u201d<\/p>

              Practical Application (Simple + Powerful)<\/strong><\/p>

              When a thought keeps resurfacing:<\/p>

              1. Don\u2019t fight it.<\/li>
              2. Name it.<\/li>
              3. Replace it with truth.<\/li><\/ol>

                Example:<\/p>

                • \u201cThis is fear.\u201d<\/li>
                • \u201cGod has not given me a spirit of fear.\u201d<\/li>
                • \u201cI choose to focus on what is true and praiseworthy.\u201d<\/li><\/ul>

                  That\u2019s Philippians 4:8 in real life.<\/p>

                  Empty minds don\u2019t lead to peace.\u00a0 Anchored minds do.<\/strong> The more your thoughts return to God\u2019s truth,\u00a0 the less power fear, criticism, and anxiety have to stay.<\/p>

                  Balancing the Negative with God\u2019s Goodness<\/strong><\/h4>

                  Balancing means giving the negative its proper weight<\/strong>, not letting it outweigh everything else.\u00a0 One critical comment doesn\u2019t erase a day of faithfulness.\u00a0 One hard moment doesn\u2019t cancel God\u2019s presence.\u00a0 One mistake doesn\u2019t undo your calling.<\/p>

                  Saul couldn\u2019t do this. One perceived threat\u2014David\u2019s success\u2014overshadowed years of loyalty and victory. Saul\u2019s inability to balance fear with gratitude cost him peace, relationships, and eventually the kingdom (1 Samuel 18\u201326).\u00a0 David, on the other hand, held tension well. Even when pursued unjustly, he could say:<\/p>

                  \u201cTaste and see that the Lord is good.\u201d<\/em>
                  \u2014 Psalm 34:8
                  (Written while he was fleeing for his life.)<\/em><\/p>

                  That\u2019s balance.<\/p>

                  Why One Bad Moment Hijacks the Whole Day<\/strong><\/h4>

                  Our brains are wired to magnify threat. Without intention, one negative moment becomes the headline of the day. Everything else fades into the background.\u00a0 But when we intentionally recall God\u2019s goodness, we reframe the story<\/em>.\u00a0 Paul models this while imprisoned:<\/p>

                  \u201cRejoice in the Lord always\u2026 Do not be anxious about anything\u2026 And the peace of God will guard your hearts and minds.\u201d<\/em>
                  \u2014 Philippians 4:4\u20137<\/p>

                  Peace doesn\u2019t come from the absence of trouble \u2014 it comes from the presence of perspective<\/strong>.<\/p>

                  A Real-World Picture<\/strong><\/h4>

                  Think of your day as a scale.\u00a0 Negativity naturally throws its weight on one side.\u00a0 Balancing doesn\u2019t remove the weight \u2014 it adds truth<\/em> to the other side:<\/p>

                  • Gratitude<\/li>
                  • God\u2019s promises<\/li>
                  • Evidence of faithfulness<\/li>
                  • Small mercies<\/li><\/ul>

                    Soon, the scale levels.<\/p>

                    A Simple Practice You Can Teach<\/strong><\/h4>

                    When something negative happens:<\/p>

                    1. Acknowledge it:<\/strong> \u201cThis was hard.\u201d<\/li>
                    2. Anchor it:<\/strong> \u201cBut God is still good.\u201d<\/li>
                    3. Add evidence:<\/strong> Name two ways you saw God\u2019s grace today.<\/li><\/ol>

                      This practice prevents one bad moment from becoming a bad day.<\/p>

                      Closing Truth<\/strong><\/h4>

                      The goal isn\u2019t to live problem-free.\u00a0 The goal is to live God-aware<\/strong>.\u00a0 When you balance what\u2019s wrong with who God is, the negative loses its power to define the day.<\/strong><\/p>

                      \u201cThis is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.\u201d<\/em>
                      \u2014 Psalm 118:24<\/p>

                      One bad moment may still sting, but it no longer gets the final word.\u00a0 Just like a bee that used up its only stinger the bad moment will die never to sting again.<\/p>

                      Point 3 \u2014 What We Focus On Shapes Our Life<\/strong><\/h4>

                      Whatever we practice mentally becomes stronger in our lives \u2014 for good or for harm.\u00a0 Neuroplasticity research shows the brain restructures<\/em> based on what we pay attention to. Practicing gratitude and positive framing strengthens neural pathways linked to resilience and well-being.\u00a0 For example, many who journal three good things each night report improved mood, hope, and even better health over time. The intentional focus on good trains the brain to notice good more easily<\/em>.<\/p>

                      Biblical Story \u2014 David\u2019s Worship and Focus<\/strong><\/h4>

                      Even while fleeing Saul\u2019s plans, David worshiped<\/em> God:
                      \u201cThe Spirit of the Lord came upon David\u2026 and he became a skilled warrior.\u201d (1 Samuel 16:23, paraphrased).
                      David wasn\u2019t oblivious to danger \u2014 he chose<\/em> to focus on God\u2019s presence. His focus shaped his leadership, his courage, and ultimately his legacy.<\/p>

                      Philippians 4:8 Is a Practice, Not a Platitude<\/strong><\/h4>

                      Paul does not write Philippians 4:8 from a place of comfort. He writes it from prison<\/strong>. Chains on his body. Uncertainty in his future. Yet his instruction is not escape your circumstances<\/em> \u2014 it\u2019s train your mind<\/strong>.<\/p>

                      \u201cFinally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable\u2014if anything is excellent or praiseworthy\u2014think about such things.\u201d<\/em>
                      \u2014 Philippians 4:8<\/p>

                      This isn\u2019t passive thinking. The word Paul uses implies continuous, deliberate focus<\/strong>. In other words: practice this.<\/em><\/p>

                      Why This Is a Spiritual Discipline<\/strong><\/h4>

                      A discipline is something you do consistently<\/strong>, not something you do when you feel like it. Just like prayer, fasting, or Scripture reading, thought direction requires effort.<\/p>

                      Your mind naturally drifts toward:<\/p>

                      • Fear over faith<\/li>
                      • Criticism over gratitude<\/li>
                      • Loss over provision<\/li><\/ul>

                        Paul is saying: don\u2019t let your mind drift\u2014guide it.<\/em><\/p>

                        \u201cDo not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.\u201d<\/em>
                        \u2014 Romans 12:2<\/p>

                        Transformation doesn\u2019t start with behavior.\u00a0 It starts with attention<\/strong>.<\/p>

                        Breaking Down Philippians 4:8 (Practically)<\/strong><\/h4>

                        Paul gives us a filter<\/strong>, not a feeling.<\/p>

                        • True<\/strong> \u2013 What aligns with God\u2019s Word, not my worry?<\/li>
                        • Honorable<\/strong> \u2013 What carries dignity, not shame?<\/li>
                        • Right<\/strong> \u2013 What reflects God\u2019s justice and integrity?<\/li>
                        • Pure<\/strong> \u2013 What cleanses rather than contaminates my heart?<\/li>
                        • Lovely<\/strong> \u2013 What draws me toward beauty and grace?<\/li>
                        • Commendable<\/strong> \u2013 What is worth talking about again?<\/li>
                        • Excellent & Praiseworthy<\/strong> \u2013 What points me toward worship?<\/li><\/ul>

                          Not everything that enters your mind deserves to stay there.<\/p>

                          How This Produces Peace<\/strong><\/h4>

                          Philippians 4:8 is directly connected to Philippians 4:7:<\/p>

                          \u201cAnd the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.\u201d<\/em><\/p>

                          Peace is not something you chase, it\u2019s something that follows alignment<\/strong>. When your thoughts line up with God\u2019s truth, peace becomes the byproduct.\u00a0 David lived this. While Saul hunted him, David repeatedly returned his thoughts to God\u2019s character:<\/p>

                          \u201cThe Lord is my light and my salvation\u2014whom shall I fear?\u201d<\/em>
                          \u2014 Psalm 27:1<\/p>

                          David didn\u2019t deny danger. He chose perspective.<\/p>

                          Neuroscience Meets Scripture<\/strong><\/h4>

                          Modern neuroscience confirms what Scripture taught centuries ago:\u00a0 what you repeatedly think about shapes your brain<\/strong>.\u00a0 Neural pathways strengthen through repetition. When you intentionally redirect your thoughts toward truth, gratitude, and praise, your brain becomes more capable of peace and resilience over time.\u00a0 God designed the brain to respond to practice \u2014 and then gave us the practice.<\/p>

                          A Daily Training Exercise (Very Teachable)<\/strong><\/h4>

                          When a thought arises, ask:<\/p>

                          1. Is it true \u2014 or just loud?<\/strong><\/li>
                          2. Does it lead me toward peace or panic?<\/strong><\/li>
                          3. Can I replace it with something praiseworthy?<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>

                            Then intentionally choose one:<\/p>

                            • A Scripture<\/li>
                            • A moment of gratitude<\/li>
                            • A reminder of God\u2019s faithfulness<\/li><\/ul>

                              That\u2019s Philippians 4:8 in action.<\/p>

                              Why This Matters So Much<\/strong><\/h4>

                              If you don\u2019t train your thoughts, your circumstances will train them for you.\u00a0 But when you practice Philippians 4:8:<\/p>

                              • Anxiety loses authority<\/li>
                              • Gratitude gains strength<\/li>
                              • Peace becomes more familiar than panic<\/li><\/ul>

                                Closing Truth (Memorable Line)<\/strong><\/h4>

                                Philippians 4:8 isn\u2019t about positive thinking.\u00a0 It\u2019s about holy thinking<\/strong>.\u00a0 And the more your thoughts reflect God\u2019s truth,\u00a0 the more your life reflects God\u2019s peace.<\/p>

                                CALL TO ACTION (clear, practical, spiritual)<\/strong><\/p>

                                Personal Reflection:<\/strong><\/p>

                                \u201cBefore you leave today or stop reading, identify one negative thought that\u2019s been dominating your attention \u2014 and intentionally replace it with one truth from God\u2019s Word.\u201d<\/p>

                                Scripture Practice:<\/strong><\/p>

                                \u201cTonight, take Philippians 4:8 seriously. Write down three things from your day that are true, good, and praiseworthy \u2014 and thank God for each one.\u201d<\/p>

                                Communal \/ Shareable<\/strong><\/p>

                                \u201cYour brain may cling to the negative \u2014 but when God becomes the glue, what is good finally sticks.\u201d<\/p>

                                \u201cIf this message resonated with you, share it with someone who\u2019s been stuck in their head lately. Sometimes freedom starts with a new focus.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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